Friendly reminder that you do not have to be on adventures and experience new things all the time. You might feel this pressure to do “cool” things every day just so you can tell other people what you did. But darling, you should live your life for yourself, not for the stories you might be able to tell. All you really need to do is be. Be in the moment. Be kind to yourself. Be there for yourself. Listen to your soul, listen to what it craves. Go on adventures and explore the world for the right reasons. Rest and recover when your body tells you to. I know that sometimes when you stand still, there can be a lot of uneasiness, because you think you have to go somewhere and do something amazing. But remember: It is absolutely okay to have days where all you do is breathe and take it easy. There is so much meaning in the slow days as well, my love.
You can’t be disappointed and get what you want. Your disappointment is the indication that you are not vibrationally in sync with what you want. There are no words that will change the result because your vibrational energy isn’t aligned with what you want. You are still chasing. You are still wanting. You are still needing. Everything but believing it’s yours. When you believe it’s already done, instead of disappointment you feel confidence. You feel peace. You feel excitement. Your actions are not cohesive to chasing. To disbelief. Your vibrational form needs to align first in order to get what you want. Stop focusing on what isn’t working. Stop focusing on what you don’t want. You are suppose to feel good. Life is suppose to feel good. When you change your energy, you change your results. Life can give you everything you want. It can present you with every opportunity you want. Every person that can help you get everything you want. But you need to decide to align vibrationally to those things first.
My favorite inadvertently creepy photography convention from Victorian times actually is the “hidden mother” photograph. As we know, taking pictures of wiggly babies is hard, especially if their mothers aren’t holding them. But for some reason people keep insisting on having baby photos taken with only the babies.
The Victorian solution to this…was to just throw a blanket over the mother and pretend she wasn’t there.
Mindset. It’s all about mindset. From the moment you wake up to the moment you rest your head at night. Everything is up to you. Your emotions, your thoughts, your perception, your reactions. Every moment.
